Fate and Destiny

"There is no such things as coincidence in this world. There's only the inevitable."

"Destiny: an event that must happen no matter what. Nothing will happen without it. Many things can be imagined from what is seen."

So, I read a story and this author is very in particular about things such as fates and destinies. True enough, I do believe that everything happens for a reason. We may know what the reason is but others are just left a mystery. What I could think of is, destiny are thing that bound to happen no matter what it is. Bad things do happen and people seek to prevent it from happen. However, it is said, you can avoid it but you can never prevent it. That's to say we may avoid it now but in the near future they will happen again. If such things are destined to happen to you, it will happen.

On the other hand, fate is something that's been created for us right from the moment we're born. Example, if we're born into a healthy and wealth family, or born into the poor and slums,it is fated and we'll be living this way until the very end of our lives. If our fate is good, then we'll say "I accept this fate". But some whose fate are bad, some that couldn't take it, curses their fate and live in despair forever. 

It is weird to say that everything has been arranged for us right from the moment we're born. "we plan however we want but God decides all". That's what everyone says. If our fate is destined to be this way, we have no choice but to accept it. What ever we do has been decided. Including commit suicide, we chose to do it, but it's been long decided  and destined that we will do it. It is not a choice but it's been fated and desti ed.